free diapers dapat upah.boleh gitu?

malam tadi kami jalan2 kat econsave, kluang.beli sayur2 sikit.beli aiskrim.beli buah2an.beli lauk.jalan2 pusing2.hehe.

tetiba saya terstop kat rak buku.saje tengok buku kanak2.dan tetiba juga nabil cakap.abin nak buku boleh?

hehe.mestilah boleh kan.sebab enSuami dah janji nak belikan buku kalau nabil free diapers.tapi kami beli satu je untuk dia.lain kali beli lagi ye.buku apa?

"SAYA SEEKOR ANAK DINASOUR- TYRANNOSAUR"

ada banyak pilihan buku.nabil nak yang ni jugak.dan kat dalam econsave tu jugak saya kena jadik pencerita.hihi.lantakla orang lalu lalang.dan mestila cerita itu ikut versi saya.ayat buku sangat skema kan?hihi.tetiba mama kamu jadi anak dinasour ^_^

Alhamdulillah..dah hampir 1 minggu potty training nabil.berjaya.anak mama hebat.buang air besar dan kecik pun kat toilet dah.memang wajibla kena bagi REWARD kan?tengah tidur pun kalau rasa nak membuang,nabil akan bangun dan lepastu sambung tidur balik.cuma saya tak konfiden sangat waktu tidur malam.saya pakaikan juga pampers sebab saya belum bersedia untuk dibanjiri.hihi.

nabil marah bila saya pakaikan pampers.nabil cakap dia nak sekolah.nak jadi anak bijak.abin dah tak pakai pampers.kenapa mama pakaikan.pagi tadi bagun tidur nabil terus pegi toilet.nak kencing.saya check pampers-kering.pandai nabil.malam nanti tidur tak payah pakai pampers la.jadi,malam ni saya terpaksa la bersedia untuk dibanjiri ^_^

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:: aku rindu sayang kamu ::

hari ini.mak dan bapak saya datang rumah.

mak saya: nenek nak balik kampung batu pahat.nak ikut tak?
nabil: nak ikut.
mak saya: ayah bagi ke?
nabil: nanti ayah bagi la.

saya tak ikut.enSuami taknak ikut.sebab beliau cakap nak cuci kereta kesayangan beliau.hoh!jadi saya tak boleh la ikut kan?takkan nak ikut pulak.kang enSuami duk rumah.saya merayap.

mama: nabil nak ikut nenek ke?
nabil: nak.
mama: boleh ke?abin kan tak pakai pampers.
nabil: boleh.

saya dengan berat hati yang amat kemas baju nabil.dan bawak juga pampers sikit.standby.nabil selamba je babai kami.huhu.sangat sedih okeh.bapak saya cakap nabil kena belajar 'jauh' sikit dengan mama dia.kang mama dia nak kerja senang.soalan: kenapa saya yang sedih sangat ni?uwaaa...

baru je beberapa minit nabil ikut nenek dan embah dia saya dah tak keruan.siap 'banjir' air mata ha.saya salahkan enSuami sebab taknak ikut.sebab beliau la saya kena jauh dengan nabil.jahat ek?haha.

setiap beberapa minit juga saya call henfon mak.cakap dengan nabil.elok pulak dia tak kencing sampai batu pahat.siap tidur dalam kereta.seronok dapat jalan2.tengok mama kamu ni nabil.melayan perasaan kat rumah.huhu.sedihnya.mak cakap nabil bangun tidur baru kencing kat bilik air.bagus la anak mama ni.

tak sabar nak jumpa nabil.saya pesan kat nabil.ajak embah balik cepat2 tau.mama rindu.

nabil......mama rindu sayang kamu.lebiu..muahhhhhhhh!!!


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Potty Train III : Nabil hebat..

Lanjutan kisah Potty Train II

Hari ni enSuami cuti.jadi nabil agak maja sikit.semua benda tak boleh buat sendiri.haih.geram.jadi nak dijadikan cerita..2 kali 'banjir' sebab nak pegi kencing kat bilik air kena cari ayah dulu.mula2 dia main basikal tak ingat dunia.masuk rumah ter'banjir' depan pintu.mintak maaf,abin tak sempat nak pegi bilik air,kata nabil.errr..takpe mama bersihkan ye..

lepastu..

tau je la mulut nabil.pot pet pot pet..lepas tu sibuk tanya ayah mana.enSuami pegi senyap2 masuk bilik sebab nak sambung tidur.tengah becok mulut nabil bercakap tetiba 'banjir' saja kat depan tv.haih.ha,masa ni saya tercubit peha nabil.hihi.jahat kan?ye la.kalau ada ayah dia semua benda dia tetiba jadi tak reti.geram tau.lepas tu saya mintak maap ler.ihihi.

lepas2 tu..

dia ok je.pegi bilik air setiap kali nak kencing.bagus.enSuami pegi bandar.pegi kedai handphone.kami tak ikut sebab tak mau proses potty training terganggu.kami pakaikan pampers malam tadi masa keluar ke bandar.hihi.tak berani lagi.baru lagi kan.tidur malam pun masih pakai pampers.esok lusa la baru train.enSuami takde kat rumah elok pulak nabil ke bilik air nak kencing.

baru sekejap tadi dia cakap nak berak.hihi.kasarnya bahasa.ingatkan dia tipu.ye la dua tiga kali pegi tak keluar.last2 pegi tadi dia dah kelam kabut.mama,cepat..cepat..abin nak beyak ni..ihihi.comel.masuk bilik air.terus membuang.pandai.mama,abin berjaya la..kata abin^_^

tahniah muhammad nabil irsyad.misi membuang air besar juga berjaya^_^

**saya tertanya2 la.kenapa sebelum ni nabil tetap nak pakai pampers?tengok ha.baru 2 hari dah terer.sebelum ni saya memang cakap dengan dia hari2 sebelum tidur.masa dia mamai2 nak tidur tu saya bisik2 kat telinga dia..agaknya sebab tu kot.dan sekarang hasilnya?membanggakan ^_^

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Potty Train II : sesi potty training bermula lagi

ini adalah lanjutan kisah potty train I

malam tadi sebelum tidur saya berbual2 dengan nabil.

mama: nabil nak sekolah tak?
nabil: nak.mestilah nak.
mama: kat sekolah kawan2 tak pakai pampers tau.kalau nak sekolah tak boleh pakai pampers.esok abin tak payah pakai pampers lagi eh?
nabil: ok..

saya macam tak confident.cuba tanya2 lagi.

mama: betul eh esok tak payah pakai pampers?
nabil: (diam)
mama: nanti nak sekolah kena ada duit nak beli buku.banyak buku nak kena beli.kalau duit dah buat beli pampers macam mana nak beli buku? (ish,kejam ke ayat tu?huhu)
nabil: (diam lagi)
mama: nanti kalau dah tak pakai pampers, duit tu boleh beli buku abin banyak2 ok?
nabil: ok.esok abin tak pakai pampers eh?

hari ni.lepas mandikan nabil saya cuba tanya dia nak pakai pampers tak?nabil cakap tak payah.hihi^_^
15minit lepas mandi nabil terkencing dalam seluar.

nabil: mama, abin kencing dekat depan la.dekat seluar abin.mintak maaf.
mama: (sabar..hihi.tak boleh marah kan?)ok takpe.nanti mama cuci.

dan sekarang ni pulak.setiap 5 minit dia ke toilet.cakap nak kencing.haih.tapi tengok pandai pulak dia cebok sendiri.pakai seluar sendiri.hm,memang patutnya dah pandai kan?ke sebab dia manja sangat takmau cuba free diapers.hihi..

tahniah muhammad nabil irsyad.hari pertama yang menakjubkan.anak mama hebat kan?


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Signs of Readiness for Toilet Training

Saya tengah rajin.jadi saya buat la research sikit about potty train dan saya dapat some good info dan saya dengan suka hati nak share dengan para pembaca sekalian.

Signs of Readiness for Toilet Training

Like learning to sit up, crawl and walk, potty training is a skill that your child must learn. Experts suggest that parents look for signs of physical, emotional, and cognitive readiness before attempting to toilet train. Children are generally around two years of age before they can recognise and respond to toileting signals such as a full bladder, so premature toilet training may only frustrate you and upset your toddler because they can't do what you're asking of them.

Although it feels impossible sometimes, your toddler WILL sooner or later, learn how to use the toilet. Starting toilet training when your toddlers are ready makes it easier for all the parties involved.

The "ready-to-start-toilet-training" signs to look out for:
• Can follow simple instructions, such as a request to sit down or undress himself/herself.
• Can stay dry for a stretch of 2 to 3 hours
• Is aware of the "need to go" and can understand such words as "potty", "poo", "pee", etc
• Dislikes wet or soiled diapers
• They like being clean and dry
• Shows interest in wearing training pants or underwear
• Can pull elastic-waists pants up and down
• Notices the potty or toilet and wants to sit on it

DO

• Do praise success. You might want to try rewards like an animal stamp on their hands (my kids love them !)
• Do invite them to sit on the potty when you're using the toilet
• Do switch from diapers to pull-up training pants they can pull up and down by themselves
• Do buy training pants in their favourite colours to make the whole toilet training process more fun for them
• Do teach them to wash their hands after going to toilet. Buy a special handsoap in their favourite scent for this purpose
• Do expect accidents ! Be patient with accidents and relapses
• Do remind them to go to the potty when they are too engrossed in their activities

DON'T

• Don't reprimand or punish in events of "accidents". It will take them some time to master this whole toilet-training business.
• Don't start toilet training when there are big changes happening in the family such as new arrival or move to a new house.
• Don't get stressed. Keep a relaxed attitude. Toileting is not a reflection on your parenting but a maturing process of your toddler. If you treat toileting asa matter of discipline, and punish your toddler for any accidents, you are starting a fight you can't win.
• Don't force them to sit too long on the potty. It'll just feel like a punishment.
• Don't turn your toilet into a battleground. If your toddler is not ready to be toilet trained, he's just not ready. Try again a couple of weeks later. Just don't give up hope. Your toddler will NOT want to be in diapers forever ;-)

You will need lots of patience and a good sense of humour and plenty of time to spend in bathroom. You might want to keep something to read in toilet (for you, not your toddler :-) Give your toilet trainee lots of kisses and cuddles - they need to know that you still love them whether or not they perform on the potty !

Potty Training Made Easy - Strategies That Really Work

Saya jumpa info ni di sini..

Potty training can be a process of trial and error. It can be both exciting and quite frustrating. Rest assured, eventually your child will be potty trained. There are very few teenagers running around in diapers!

That being said, there are proven potty training strategies that have worked for parents over the years. Let’s take a look at a few of them to make the potty training process as easy and painless as possible.

1. Wait until your child is ready for potty training before you begin.
Many parents, undoubtedly excited to be done with the whole diaper thing, rush potty training. Good intentions aside, if a child isn’t mentally and physically ready to learn how to use a toilet, the potty training process is going to take much longer and be frustrating for the both of you.

Signs your child is ready to begin potty training include:
*Frequent dry or clean diapers
*Curiosity about the toilet
*Communication regarding their potty habits – if a child tells you they just peed or they have to pee they’re ready for potty training.

2. Make sure you have the right gear.
There are a lot of potty training aids available. From small portable potty chairs to floating targets you can place in the toilet to help your little boy aim and enjoy the training process. Getting the gear before you begin training will help you and your child create a structure and a routine around potty training.

It also helps to have potty training friendly clothing. There’s nothing more frustrating than a child who tells you they have to go potty and then having them wet their pants because it took too long to get their clothing off. Slips on pants are the easiest and of course skirts and dresses make it easy for girls.

3. Have a positive mindset.
Mistakes will happen and children will make huge leaps forward only to then have really bad potty training days or weeks. Reward and celebrate successes and stay focused on having a positive attitude. Recrimination, punishment and yelling only makes a child feel bad about themselves, it doesn’t further the potty training process.

Know that it’s much easier for a child to be aware of their body during the daytime and nighttime accidents can happen well into elementary school. Be prepared. Protect your child’s pride and their belongings with a mattress pad, rules about drinking before bedtime and support and understanding.

The potty training process can take a while and each child’s experiences are different. Be patient, be positive and be prepared!

Potty Train I

Saya dalam proses melatih Nabil untuk membuang air kecik atau besar kat toilet.

Seingat saya, saya dah cuba sekali masa bulan puasa lepas.tapi saya tak cukup kuat sebab saya bf Damia dan saya bepuasa.macam nak pengsan pulak la nak berulang alik ke toilet.sampai tengahari saya cakap kat Nabil..

'Kita sambung lepas bulan puasa eh..mama tak larat la..'

eh? alasan ke ni?malas? oh tidak. sebabnya berkali-kali Nabil 'banjir' dan saya berkali-kali jadi makcik cleaner.tekak jadi kering.perut mula menyanyi lagu rock.yeayeahhhh!!

lepas bulan puasa.kami sambung potty training.
sampai sekarang masih tak berjaya sebab masa beraya asyik beraya ke sana sini jadi saya taknak ambil risiko Nabil 'banjir' kat rumah orang.
dan sekarang pulak Nabil menolak untuk di 'train'. and he kept on refuse me when I told him to pee himself. dia cakap 'takmau! Abin nak pakai pampers!'

Pulak dah?

And during that time I thought maybe it’s too early and he is not ready yet, so I hold the idea back.

Hm?betul ke tak ready ek?ke tak puas manja?uhuhuhu..

Sekian.